My PCOS Story: From Confusion to Clarity
Hey HealthierHer,
Welcome back!
Today, I want to start off by sharing a little story about myself. As you all know, my name is Uloma. I was diagnosed with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) in 2021, a few months after I moved to Canada from South Korea.
My Story
Growing up, I dreaded that time of the month, the cramps, the blood, the discomfort, and the constant worry about stains. So when I started missing my periods occasionally, I honestly didn’t care much. I wasn’t sexually active, had no signs of infection, and felt somewhat relieved not to deal with the hassle.
But things started to change when I moved to South Korea. The gaps between my periods became longer, sometimes up to three months and when my period finally came, it wouldn’t stop. I would bleed heavily for three weeks straight!
I visited several hospitals and women’s clinics, but due to the language barrier, I never really got a clear answer.
When I moved to Canada in 2021, the heavy bleeding continued. My doctor ordered tests, but before the results came back, I started feeling dizzy and weak. One night, I was rushed to the ER — soaked in blood and completely drained. The doctors gave me medication to stop the bleeding and sent me home.
A few days later, my family doctor called with the results: I had PCOS.
But that was it — no explanation, no guidance, no information about what it meant or how to manage it. Just a simple, “It’s not life-threatening.”
I was left confused, scared, and searching for answers.
So, What is PCOS?
Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) is a hormonal disorder that affects women of reproductive age.
It’s characterized by:
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Irregular or absent menstrual cycles
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Excess androgen levels (leading to acne and excess hair growth)
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Ovarian cysts
Common symptoms include:
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Irregular or absent periods
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Excess facial or body hair (hirsutism)
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Acne or oily skin
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Weight gain or difficulty losing weight
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Thinning hair or hair loss
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Insulin resistance (which may lead to type 2 diabetes)
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Difficulty getting pregnant
The exact cause of PCOS isn’t fully understood, but genetics, insulin resistance, and inflammation are thought to play major roles.
While there’s no cure, PCOS can be effectively managed through:
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Lifestyle changes (diet, exercise, stress management)
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Medication (as prescribed by your doctor)
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Support and education
Takeaway
If you or someone you know is experiencing these symptoms, please talk to a healthcare provider.
Educating yourself about PCOS is one of the most empowering things you can do.
Here are some trusted resources to get started::
Let’s talk:
Have you been diagnosed with PCOS? What has your experience been like?
Share your story in the comments — let’s support and learn from one another.
Uloma Udeh-Onokurhefe
HealthierHer Wellness

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